One of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned about “the game” is that women see the men they date in terms of “social value”.
That’s why it’s not uncommon to see unattractive guys with gorgeous women, or poor guys dating supermodels, or fat guys dating skinny chicks. Some products, like Dr Amend’s Pheromone Advantage will make outrageous promises saying that a few drops of their oil will make you irresistible – but we all know that’s rubbish.
It all comes down to the value you bring to the table. And for the pheromone party we’re throwing in a few months, you best be prepared!
… think about some butt-ugly celebrities. Trey Songz for example. The guy is below average to average looking, yet women would fall at his feet for a chance to be with him.
Because he’s a celebrity (singer).
I’m not saying you need to be a celebrity, but there are certain things that you can do to increase your social value tremendously.
Often, women will start with your outward appearance – making a first impression judgment by your appearance of health, posture, the clothes you’re wearing, grooming.
From appearance, they deduce your level of education, financial stability, social status, business connections, etc.
Then they assess and validate non-tangibles through conversation and other means.
Which is why being able to converse, and create memorable, exciting, and deep conversations is so important.
They judge how a given man could add value to them (i.e. bragging rights, having one up on friends, financial security, etc.).
Basically, they’re asking themselves “how successful is this person?” and “what can he do for me?”
All this stuff that makes a man attractive is summed up as social value. It’s a currency.
Just as a woman has more currency when she’s young (i.e. physical beauty), men gain higher currency as they get older.
Generally older men = greater social value.
The reason I bring this up is that it takes time to build social value.
Guys – especially younger men – should focus on building their their social value as a first priority.
That doesn’t mean you put your dating life on hold – it simply means that you are striving for more… and women naturally find that attractive.
You should be focusing first on your education, career, business building and networking, social skills, life goals, financial net worth, excelling in a skill or vocation, etc. – not making women the priority in your life…
Guys that make women the #1 priority in life tend to fall victim to the old adage of bankers – if you look like you need a loan, you won’t get one. And if it looks like you’re basing all your faith in attracting women on synthetic pheromones, then you’ll fail too.
That’s why I advise you that you should build social value, because higher value means more options — just as money equals more choices and freedom.
While a guy should enjoy women while he’s young, it should not get in the way of him becoming the best he can be at something (besides women), and to gain as much social value possible to enjoy more sooner.
The key point it is that a man’s social value attracts women, and his currency determines the options he has in terms of women.
Of course, there are pheromone products that can help you to build your “social value” too – but the real essence is that you build this intrinsic value within. Some products, like Alpha Dream’s Alfa Maschio use a variety of ingredients to give their effects – including their own custom silicone configuration *Alpha Dream specifically*.
Products like Corpo, Wolf, X22, and even products like Aqua Vitae and Bad Wolf will give you a huge leg up in this department.
With pheromones, you will be able to experience elevated social status and begin reaping the rewards sooner than you think – but the game plan here is to always be upgrading too.